Islam believes that a woman is not merely subject to man rather she has her own separate and complete entity in all respects. She has an equal right to that of a man to nourish her religions faculties, serve her faith, acquire education, get a job, do business, own something and benefit herself from it and prove her creativity in an enterprise. She is master of herself in all respects. The religious aspect of this fact is described in the Quran as under:
“For muslim men and women, for believing men and women; for devout men and women; for men and women who are patient, for men and women who humble themselves; for men and women who give chastity’ for men and women who fast; for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who remember Allah much- for them all has God prepared forgiveness and a great reward” (Al – Ahzab 33, verse 55)
The characteristics mentioned in the above Quranic Verse are ten in number. These characteristics cover all aspects of Islam, Islamic conduct and behaviorism related to the rights of God and of human beings too. The above verse makes it clear that there is no distinction between a man and a woman in terms of worships of God, obedience to Him and the place in the life after death. In fact there is no distinction on the basis of gender.
The Quran has laid down the following principle in connection with acquisition of wealth
“For men is a portion of what they earn and for women is a portion of what they earn“ (Al-Nisa 4, Verse32)
The Sura “Al-Nisa” basically deals with matters relating to money and other issues that emerge out of the relationship of man and woman in different capacities in a family; Immediately after the above quoted verse an article from the law of legacy has been described and next comes the instructions about the mutual contacts of a husband and a wife. Hence the context makes it clear that the above mentioned verse is related to the worldly life and that a woman has equal rights to that of a man like acquiring education, doing job or a business, deal of a property and even develop her personality.
There are several other Quranic verses which make it clear that there is no distinction between man and a woman on any grounds except in the bearing of a responsibility (the detail would come in later pages). Both are human beings and both have rights and privileges. God says:
“I will deny no man or woman among you the rewards of their labours. You are the offspring of one another” (Al-Imran 3: Verse: 195)
Through Sura Al-Tawba, God has declared all Muslim men and women as friends, companions and helpers of each other. Thus women are, in no way inferior to men rather they are friends of men and are equal to them. (However, in terms of responsibilities there can be classification, like a doctor and a teacher, under special circumstances):
“The true believers, both men and women, are equal friends to each other. They enjoin what is just and forbid what is evil; they attend to their prayers and pay the Zakat and obey Allah and His Apostle. On these Allah will have mercy. He is Mighty, Wise.”(Al-Tawba 9, verse71)
This is why during the prophetic period women used to acquire both religious and worldly education, do farming, take part in trade and industry and manage their wealth and property; About Aisha, the wife of the Holy Prophet, everyone knows that she has related and confirmed 2210 Hadiths (Prophet’s sayings) (Sadarat-ul-Zahab: vol.1)
Imam Ibne-e-Qaseem has prepared an index of the male and female jurists who expressed their valuable opinions on the law and even issued verdicts in this context. If we glance at that list, we would amazingly find that there were a large number of women among them. These include Ayesha, Umm-I-Salma, Hafsa, Safia, Umm-I-Habiba, LaylaBintiQarim, AsmaBint-I-Abubaker , Umm-I-Shareek, KhaulaBint-I-umm-I-darda, AtteeqaBint-I-Zaid, SahlaBint-I- Suhail, Jaweria, Maimoona, Fatima Bint -I-Qais, Umm-I-Aiman, Umm-I-Yousaf, Assroa etc. (Aalam-ul-Moqeen: vol.1)
The books based on the compilations of the history of the days of the companions of the Apostle reveal the stories of innumerable females who had mastery over different fields of the religious knowledge rather several eminent scholars attained the knowledge of Islam from them. It was a general practice during those days people used to seek guidance from the wives of the Apostle in the matters of religion. There were besides the wives of the Apostle, certain other women too who earned repute in this field. Rabi-Bint-I-Mauz was one such famous scholar and the outstanding scholars of Islam like Abdullah-bin-Abass and Abdullah Bin Umar had been her students. Several people have related certain Hadiths through her reference. These include Salman Bin Yasir, Abad Bin walid and Nafei-Bin-Umar etc. Fatima Bint-I-Qais had been the tutor of the prominent scholars like Ibn-e-Maseeb, Urwa Bin Zubair and Shabi. (Al-Astaayab-fil-Asam-ul-Sahab)
Ayesha the daughter of Saad Bin Abi-Waqas was remarkable scholar and had educated Imam Malik, AyubSakhtiami and Hakam Bin Ataiba. (Tazeeb-ul-tazeeb Vol. 12)
Imam Shafi, the eminent jurist learnt the knowledge of Hadith from the SyedaNafisa, the grand daughter of Hasan, the grand son of the Apostle. (Wafyat-ul-Aayam-al-Ibn-khalkanVol 2)
Same was the case of the worldly knowledge and wisdom. For example among the female companions of the Apostle several were poetess like Khansa, Saudah, Safia, Atika, Muridya, Umm-I-Aiman and several others. In the field of medicine and surgery, RafazaAslamia, Umm-I-Mutea, umm-I-Kabsa, HamneBint-I- Jahsh, Ummi-I-Athiya, UmmaiSaleem and several other women won repute. (Tabqat-Ibne-Saeed, Asaba)
It was a usual practice among women to get worldly knowledge during those days. If their number is not remarkable, it was due to lack of resources. Some ordinary women knew how to read and write and even could manage small accounts. (TabqatIbn-e-Saad Vol-8). Some wrote and reply letters. (Al-Adab-ulMusfi)
During those days the women used to do farming and looked after their fields. In Bokhari (the collection of Hadith) Sahl Bin Sasd relates the story of a female companion of the Apostle who owned fields and gardens. She cultivated a vegetable named “Salq” near the bank of a stream and used to serve Sahl Bin Saad and others with Salq and Maize when they visited every Friday. (Bokhari)
The most authenticated books on Hadith like Bokhari, Muslim, Abu-Daud and IbniMauja quote the statement of Jabir Bin Abdullah who narrates about her maternal aunt. She was divorced and was going through Iddat (the three months waiting period after divorce during which a woman can’t marry). She desired to sell out the fruit of her garden for her living. She consulted the Apostle who advised her to do so as in that case she would be able to give charity and do something for her redemption. This makes clear that the women, during the prophetic perod used to do farming and trade.
According to Bokhari, Asma, the daughter of Abu Bakar, the first pious Caliph and the wife of Zubair used to assist her husband in farming on the fields almost two miles far from her home.
Those days the women could freely take part in the trade and business activities. The most respectable woman in Muslim Ummah Khadija was a trader. Many female companions of the Apostle like Khaula. Al-khamia, Saqafia and Bint-I-Mukarrama used to trade in perfume. (Asaba-Fi-Tameez-ul-Sahaba Vol-4)
Several event related in ‘TabqatIbn-I-Saad’ exhibit the fact muslim women during the Prophetic period used to take part in agriculture, trade and industry even without the assistance of their husbands. The wife of Abdullah Bin Masud was a good craftswoman. Once she told the Apostle that she was adept in different crafts and sold out her prepared goods. She inquired if she could spend her money on her husband and children as they have no other source of income. The Apostle told her that she would get a reward from God if she did that. It is also quoted in Al-AsabaFilTameez-al Sahabe Vol4)
Once a woman named KhaulaBint-e-Saalba had a dispute with her husband. Both of them presented their case before the Apostle who advised the husband to keep himself away from her until the revelation of an instruction from God. At this Khula told the Prophet of God that her husband would’tbe able to survive in that case as he was dependent upon her for his living.
A woman named Qaila told the Apostle that she was a trader and sought his guidance in the trade matters.
Another woman, Amira narrates that once she went to the market along with her maid servant and bought a fish. Ali, the fourth Caliph of Islam was also there who bought that fish from her.
There are many such incidents related in ‘TabqatIbn-I-SaadVol 8. The most authentic book on this subject.
Souda, the Prophet’s wife was adept in the art of tanning. It is quoted in Bukhari that once her sheep died, she put its skin off, got it tanned and softened it with dates.
During that period women performed several tasks collectively as well. The Bokharikitab-ul-istehsan unfolds that once many women visited the Apostle and requested him to allocate one day in a week for their religious training. The Prophet thus accepted their request. AsmaBint-I-Zahid was good at rhetoric. Once women designated her their representative and sent to the Apostle to make some queries (Al-istaab Fi-Al-Sahab)
Women were entrusted with certain responsible positions as well and they proved their worth. For example Umar, the second Caliph of Islam appointed ShafaBint-e- Abdullah as the Price control officer.
After having known this fact that men and women are equal to each other with reference to religion, conduct and all human rights, some questions arise on the seenaries.
Firstly, what is meant by the statement that Hawwa, the first ever woman of human race was born from the ribs of Adam. Secondly, how can it be justified to say that men are leaders of women. Thirdly, whether the recompense for a female blood in half to that of a man. Fifthly, if a woman’s evidence is considered half to that of a woman by the court of law.
Keeping in view the subject of this chapter its seems appropriate to explain the first questions first now, the rest would be discussed in detail in the relevant chapters.
The Quran Says:
“O’humabeinghave fear of your Lord who created you from a single soul. From that soul He created its mate, and through them He bestrewed the earth with countless men and women.” (Al-Nisa 4, Verse-1)
There can be two possible explanations for the words, “From that soul He created its mate”. First, this mate was created from that very soul and second that its mate was created through its race. As per first possibility Adam was created first and Hawwa was created out of him. Second possibility shows that an image of Human being was created first and out of that image Adam and Eve were created separately.
There is an established rule for the proper understanding of the Quran: if a Quranic Verse does not unfold its meaning at one place all other verse on the same topic should be studied for the proper comprehension. For example the following verse of Al-Nihal.
“Allah has given from among yourselves your mates, and through them He granted you sons and grandsons. He has provided you with good things” (Al-Nahal-16,:72)
“This verse conveys the sense that the wives are created from the race of human beings and not from the ribs of their husbands.”
Another verse of Al-Rum says:
“And of His sings is that He gave you mates from among yourselves, that you might live in tranquility with them. And put love and kindness in your hearts. Surly there are signs in this for thinking people.” (Al-Rum 30:21)
When we try to understand the meaning of the verse-1 of Al-Nisa in the light of the above quoted verses, the real sense of the matter becomes crystal clear. It is so because no part of the Quran is contradictory to another, rather the whole book gives the same sense.
Now we turn towards the reference books.
One hadith is related through the refrence of Abu Huraira and put down in the book of Hadith like BukhariKitabNikah, KitabulAhadis-ul- Anbia and Muslim- KitabulRazaat. The wording of the reference is different every where as it was quite natural that a person heard something from the Apostle and related it to a person of the next generation and so on. Thus this Hadith reached the compiler of the book of Hadith two hundred years after the death of the Prophet. It is obvious that the wording of the saying is not the same when it passes through this process. The main motive behind all this is to convey the sense understood by the listener. Thus it is important and essential that every Hadith be understand in the light of the Quran which is the most authentic and basic document of Islam. While studying Hadith, all relevant Hadiths must be kept in mind and no separate meaning of one Hadith should be derived in order to avoid any doubt.
After this brief discussion it becomes easy for us to reflect upon the above mentioned Hadith. The only narrator of this Hadith is Abu Huraira. It seems as if the Apostle was advising the people to treat their wives well and try to pull on with them. They should not try to mould them according to some strict regulation and tackle them wisely. If their wives start complaining, suspecting and creating problems for them, even they should try to convince them and satisfy them with love and politeness. Therefore the Apostle expressed the women’s psychology as like rib. If it is tried to be straightenit it might break. Thus if a woman is pressed to lead her wife according to some strict code of rules, it might result in divorce.
Obviously, it is a fine example to make people understand. The Quran and the Hadith are full of such examples and they always accord their idiomatic sense. So the different narrators have expressed the same statement in different words: “women is like a rib”. This reference recorded in Kitab-al-Razzat of the Muslim seems to be reflecting the real words. Rest of the narrators reported it according to their understanding and taste. If we study it as a whole, it becomes clear that it is merely an example because none of the references mentions Everather Women as community has been talked about here. Every one knows the fact that women are not born from the ribs of men, rather they pass through all stages of birth like men.
Thus, the above discussion proves that there is no such concept in Islam that women is inferior to man and is subservient to him as she is born from his ribs.